A Process Made Easier

By Grayson Schmidt

 

Although many law enforcement officials and victim advocates agree that there is one simple solution to stalking, they add that requesting a restraining order is a common step a victim can take to combat the issue.

Brian Draper of the Glendale Police Department and Robert Flam, at the Mesa Police Department, agree with that idea, but they said it doesn’t necessarily ensure a stalker will abide by it.

“Is it a cure-all? Of course not,” Draper said. “Is that piece of paper going to stop you from going to your ex-girlfriend’s house and stalking her or hurting her? Obviously, that piece of paper isn’t going to stop you if you’re that determined, but if you show up there, now she calls immediately and you get arrested.”

But, just getting to that point can be difficult on victims.

Erin Yabu, the Phoenix Deputy Human Services and Family Advocacy Center Director, said the court process can be intimidating for many already dealing with an intimidating issue.

In addition to connecting victims with advocates and counselors, Yabu said that the Family Advocacy Center handles restraining orders to bypass the initial court process.

She added advocates will assist victims with filing petitions. Then, she aids with calling into Phoenix Municipal Court via Skype and speaking with a judge, so that the victim can make a case in a comfortable environment.

Although Yabu did say that the protective order isn’t complete until the perpetrator has been served the documents, she said that starting that process without having to go to court makes a huge difference for those already worrisome about his or her situation.

“A courtroom can be intimidating, so just being able to have them come to a safe, comfortable space speaks volumes to individuals who are in that situation,” Yabu said.